Ordering & Requesting Materials

Have a program coming up? Need to restock your supplies? Order materials (books, kits, etc) with your CT discount, and request/order surveys and assessments.

Order Materials

Order books and kits below. Discount codes are provided next to each product below (if they are not working, reach out to Kelly). Alternatively: email Dave Marr to request materials and he will send you an invoice.

Showing Up: Books

The core book for our training and work! Apply CTBOOKS at checkout for your CT discount.

When to order: Stocking up for gifts, referrals, or trainings, for a specific program/workshop (especially the Showing Up Workshop), or to have another copy on hand.

Showing Up: A Comprehensive Guide to Comfort & Connection Showing Up: A Comprehensive Guide to Comfort & Connection
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Showing Up: A Comprehensive Guide to Comfort & Connection
$24.99

By Jen Marr, Founder & CEO of Inspiring Comfort, LLC
With Skye Quinn, TIME
Foreword by Dr. John Draper, Director of the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, Vibrant

How do we “show up” for coworkers, friends, classmates, family, acquaintances, and even strangers when we are all struggling?

Experts in the mental health field are recognizing that we do indeed need each other. We can’t self-care our way out of this. It takes intentional connection – the reciprocal relationships within our homes, workplaces, schools, neighborhoods, and communities — to ultimately bring about our emotional resilience.

Showing Up breaks it all down. It uncovers the behaviors that get us off track and outlines the science of how human care works. It equips individuals, leaders, and organizations to break through the Awkward Zone™ so that people in your life know that you care. Filled with evidence-based tools and strategies, as well as touching stories, this book is a guide to bringing strength and hope to others and ourselves.

Showing Up By Jen Marr with Skye Quinn

208 full-color pages

8x10 size

Cover with flaps for ease of use

Publisher: New Degree Press

Publication Date: March 21, 2022

Project Comfort Core Kits

The kit where it all began, perfect for building relationships and cultivating skills through action. Apply CTDISCOUNT at checkout to get your 10% off discount.

Includes materials for up to 250 plaques, including multi-colored wooden plaques, paint pens, fine-point pens, sharpies, glue, bling, decorative supplies, and gifting materials.

When to order: Facilitating the Team Connections Workshop, hosting a book club, leading a crisis or comfort response activity, making a gift for someone who needs support, or facilitating Project Comfort (youth program).

Project Comfort Core Kit Project Comfort Core Kit
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Project Comfort Core Kit
$350.00

The plaque kit where it all began! Use this kit to create beautiful, heartfelt designs on the front and write a thoughtful letter on the back for someone in need of support. These plaques are perfect for building relationships and showing someone you care. For groups and individuals of all ages, the reciprocal exercise of giving and receiving teaches and affirms the skills of comforting and showing up for others.

Assorted Blank Plaques

  • 50 color plaques (blue, teal, ivory, pink, lime green, yellow, lilac)

Art Supplies*

  • 55 oil-based paint pens in assorted colors, selected and tested to make beautiful plaques

  • 24 assorted colors of permanent, fine-point pens

  • 12 fine-point black pens

  • 12 ultra fine-point black pens

  • 1 tube clear glue

  • 144 pieces of decorating bling

  • 24 pencils and 1 pencil sharpener

Gifting Materials

  • 50 cellophane bags

  • 100 pieces of colored ribbon

  • 50 insert cards

* Included art supplies will support decorating of up to 250 plaques. Additional plaques can be ordered in quantities of 50. Included pens and markers work best with no more than 25-30 participants at a time.

Plaque Refill Kits

Set of 50 colored plaques and gifting materials. Apply CTDISCOUNT at checkoutto get your 10% off discount.

Important to note: make sure that before you purchase a refill kit that you (or the group you’re ordering for) have a Core Kit first. The paint pens, sharpies, and fine-point pens from the Core Kit can all be re-used

When to order: When you need extra plaques or to restock for a program, workshop, training, activity, or for yourself. For example: you may have one large original Core Kit that you use for multiple activities or trainings (the paint pens can be re-used), but need more plaques to distribute.

Project Comfort Refill Plaques
$150.00

Set of 50 assorted colored plaques and gifting materials.


There will be additional materials added here in the next year or so, including Lifting Up and the print-on-demand Supportive Leader Playbook, which will be officially released in April 2025. Assessments and pre-surveys are available to request and order below.

To pre-order Lifting Up, purchase a gift card, sign up or gift a public offering, or order any other products not listed here, visit our public store by clicking the button below. Your general CT discount you can apply at checkout is CTDISCOUNT (you will not be able to apply it to a product more than once).

Can’t find what you’re looking for?

Request Assessments & Pre-Surveys

Proprietary data collection is a foundational core of our work. We use Alchemer*, a survey platform software, to survey and assess individuals, groups, and organizations. The proprietary surveys we use include:

  • The Supportive Culture Pre-Survey - An essential component of the Discovery Phase/Workshop.

  • The Awkward Zone Assessment - Required for the Awkward Zone Workshop.

  • The Personal Care Profile - Sometimes used in conjunction with the Awkward Zone Workshop. Note: taking the Awkward Zone Assessment and completing the Awkward Zone Workshop (or at the very least having a very in-depth understanding of the Awkward Zone) is a pre-requisite for the Personal Care Profile. Can be administered at the end of a workshop with a QR code.

  • Stop Start Continue - Optional and occasionally used as an accountability, goal-setting, and/or reporting measure. Participants, after a training or keynote, write down practices, behaviors, or mindsets they want to stop, start, and continue after they’ve learned the material. Can be administered at the end of a workshop with a QR code (or you can go old-school and have them write their goals on index cards).

  • Evaluations: For collecting feedback on a workshop, keynote, program, or other training.

*Alchemer Privacy Policy: Any organization or group that you work with can rest assured that their data will remain secure, protected, and confidential. Alchemer does not sell data, nor do we at Showing Up—the data is owned by us. To read or send a client Alchemer’s official privacy policy, click here.